Do you read a lot into someone’s actions?
Do you frequently believe that you are the reason why things happen?
As a Malaysian, I have never been big on cards, but I know that culturally, they appear to be quite important – especially in the UK.
A few months ago, I spoke to Freda, who was celebrating her 99th birthday and was waiting to hit 100 so she would get that telegram from the Queen.
She hadn’t received some cards from some people she had expected and was fretting about the reasons why. This was especially true of those she knew were still alive, but who may have “forgotten” her birthday.
I think life is too short to over-think and over-worry about things like this.
Ask me when I’m 99.
I may be old enough to not have anymore flying frogs to give.
Or I may just become more of a cranky ogress than I already am RAR. 😖
Do you keep a tally of the Christmas cards you receive and perhaps check them off your list for next year?
