Kevin* left his executive role

Kevin* left his executive role after a fundamental disagreement about values with the CEO to join another company.
…. and his team followed suit.
🤯

“Wait! No! Come baaaaack!”
Too late CEO dude. 🙅🏻‍♀️

Bluster, empty promises, ‘love-bombs’ and job perks may impress… temporarily.

But what does loyalty mean?
What does it mean to create strong bonds that goes beyond the professional relationship?

What creates loyalty? 🧲

It’s the psychological contract between parties that is adhered to, no matter the circumstances.

It’s the 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗶𝗰𝗶𝘁, 𝘀𝘂𝗯𝗷𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲, 𝗿𝗲𝗰𝗶𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗰𝗮𝗹 𝗲𝘅𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗺𝗶𝘀𝗲𝘀 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 between two parties. 💞

Such as…
– I promise to always treat you with respect and dignity.
– I promise to always be as honest as I can, when you require answers.
– I promise to always look out for your best interest, even at the expense of my wants.
– You can expect my actions, thoughts and deeds to always align with my values.
– You can expect that I will always be a WYSIWYG** person.
😁

Every relationship is bound by a psychological contract, whether you know it or not.

“You can be sure that ‘manager’ aka JERK-IN-CHARGE will stab you the first chance they get. Don’t believe anything they say, and always watch your back.” 😠

Don’t be that type of ‘leader’.

People in my orbit knows that my psychological contract says:
“I promise unlimited virtual donuts 🍩 any time, no questions asked!” 😁🍩😋😋😋

What clauses are in your psychological contract?

* may be his real name, maybe not 🧐
** WYSIWYG = What You See Is What You Get

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