Is this your grandmother’s road?
Did she teach you how to drive?
Those are just a couple of colourful ‘Malaysian Chinese’ phrases I use sometimes that makes Husband chuckle.
The other one is, “My tyre has no more flower.”
Which means my tyre is bald. 🤭 Ok, I’m digressing from the topic at hand about perspective.
In the most recent issue of my newsletter on Emotional Intelligence, I talk about assumption of ill intent in others, which can be quite poisonous to group dynamics and relationships.
I generally give everyone the benefit of the doubt; at least for the first time.
Repeated transgression will relegate you to my No Christmas Card List. 😠
On top of creating and nurturing a positive environment, following the above Fertilizer Tip* will get you a long way towards creating better relationships with those around you.
It’s a less stressy way to live. 🌈
Be good, and #BeKind.
Everyone deserves the benefit of the doubt, because they may be going through stuff that isn’t obvious to those around them. 🌹
*To know more, check out my last issue, link 👇🏻
