The quality of my life is based on___________________ What does that answer look like for me?I sat down and thought…
Episode 18 of my #podcast with Michaela Janikovicova is now out! I loved talking to her, especially because we touched…
“Be a better version of yourself.” Anyone who knows me, knows that I am a huge fan of critical thinking,…
“How to be a Ninja Consultant in a #Salesforce Discovery.” It’s actually “How to run Discoveries really reallly well” – but that…
#ActiveListening.An under rated skill. Many people feel the need to make the other person feel better with – sympathy“Oh poor…
How do you get someone to do what you want?You can force, manipulate, compel, coerce, convince, persuade, cajole, coax, and…
Power and Politics.How many people do you know play those games well? Many of us find it very difficult to…
I’ve been getting quite a few requests for more No Charge #PeiItForward sessions (Amy J. coined that hashtag and it still gives me…
What if…? Peggy became the first super soldier instead of Steve Rogers?T’challa was abducted by Yondu and became Star-Lord?You took…
But he seemed OK. So I didn’t think he needed any help.She didn’t cry or anything, so I assumed all…
“I hate it! I hate it! I HATE IT!!”The ‘integration’ and ‘upgrade’ had gone horribly wrong. Delays after delays, broken…
Episode 17 of my #podcast with Kamaljeet Singh Matharu (Kam) a #Salesforce Functional Lead at Cognizant. It was a very…
Argh! Another day of fighting with youtube, but have got it done now! Episode 17 of my #podcast with Kamaljeet Singh M. a #Salesforce Functional Lead…
I’m moving house. Well, it’s phase 1 of moving my newsletter from mailchimp to kajabi… So the topic of this…
*Trigger warning* One of the amazing things my charity does in terms of reducing suicide is by providing much needed…
He was truly a yoda.Smelly brown stuff was flying around, and the customer was screaming blue murder and hurling really…
I’m having an emotional moment right now. I opened the most recent Consulting Masterclass at no charge to this lovely…
Do you have a scarcity mindset or an abundant one?Do you feel that giving to others diminish your value or…
Redundancies are scary. It hits at the core of who we are – our identity, especially our ability to support…
Is this your grandmother’s road?Did she teach you how to drive? Those are just a couple of colourful ‘Malaysian Chinese’…
What’s my story? Is it the one where I’m the victim and I always have a tale of woe? Or…
Right – poll closed, and it was really close, so I decided I’d combine the topics! 😁 Now I have…
Episode 16 of my #podcast with Deepthi Daita, Solution Architect at #Salesforce is now out. It was such a wide…
What’s the point of making yourself better if it doesn’t include creating better relationships? In tomorrow’s newsletter, I conclude my…
Your life and your destiny is in your hands.What a snobby statement, you might think. What if you’re a slave?What…
The flea that was kept in a box and stayed there even though the lid was lifted. The elephant who…
How do you deal with the haters?I have the answer! I talk to Deepthi Daita from #Salesforce about #Discrimination that we’ve faced in our careers, especially…
Help! Been invited to speak on 9 Sept and need help deciding on the topic! Paul Harris, founder of Coacto |…
I love questions.I discover so much about others, and so much about myself just by using great questions. It’s a…
Transparency creates trust.And trust creates a safe and secure environment to have open conversations about expectations and boundaries. ❤ I…
Ahhh having difficult conversations.It’s not suited for everyone. Sometimes I don’t like it too, but there are times when it…
15th #OnThePeiroll #podcast with Tara Aldridge now out! This was a beautiful conversation, full of empathy and… human-ness. I loved…
There are times when we feel invisible.Isolated.Alone. No one would know if I disappear, you think.No one would know if…
I had picked a date for my membership site launch and have been working like mad. There was no such…
“Why did you do that?”“How come you let that happen?” Judgemental accusation. “Why don’t you do this?”“Why don’t you think…
I miss in-person #Discovery workshops. It’s an immersive experience, as we are there with the end users, the people who works the…
What do you do with the things that are outside your circle of influence? Do you beat your chest and…
Something Talia Johnson ☁️ posted today resonated with me. It was about paying attention to those around us, especially our family. I’ve…
I had a beautiful conversation with Tara Aldridge for my #podcast (dropping next Monday 9 Aug). We connected awhile ago, and met sporadically at…
What’s makes a good super power?Great hair?Witty comeback?Ability to zap the villian with shooty lasers from your eyes? As it’s…
I rarely wade into controversial topics such as religion, sex and politics… And more recently Brexit (in the UK) and…
14th #OnThePeiroll #podcast with Richard Clark now out! I really had a lot of fun on this one; QA and…
Testers get a raw deal. Devs dislike them because they point out problems in their code.Functional consultants detest them because…
Knowing WHAT to test is as important as knowing HOW to test. My talk with Richard Clark was absolutely fascinating, as we…
Life is NOT FAIR.You could get laid off.You could lose your marriage.You could lose your job. Life is full of…